Monday, August 29, 2005

In the Beginning

After a typical Halford family breakfast (including cream of wheat, fresh fruit and toast around the dining room table), I followed Richard (who was driving Jane's car) from our home in Lone Hill out onto the highway. Once he was certain that I was on my way, he turned back to his own office and I trekked on to the NMCF office in Saxonwold. Unfortunately, the drive did not go off without a hitch.

Having only been to NMCF once, I became completely turned around once exiting the highway. I drove and I drove and I drove, all around Saxonwold, never once coming across the office. I stopped one security guard who was patrolling the streets, but he didn't know where I could find the office. In a near panic, I noticed a woman had pulled over on the side of the road. I pulled up behind her and she immediately jumped into her car. I honked and waved and yelled out my car window, and she finally got out and came to my car. (She was most likely sure that I was in some sort of medical emergency, the way I was carrying on). Thankfully, she could easily direct me to the office, and I was actually within spitting distance.

Once within the gates of the NMCF, I paused briefly to calm myself, and walked into the office. It was completely dark inside. "Welcome to Africa," said Leona (manager of Finance and my support person). The power was out.

So it stayed for half of the morning. I met my project manager, Aderna, in the dark. We reviewed my plan for the next month. In the near future, I was to review our documentation on Goelama project (more details to come, but basically concerned with Orphans and Vulnerable Children or OVC who were affected by HIV/AIDS). By late afternoon, I had finished with all of the documents I had been provided with, so I was tasked with reading a previous review of the project (all 230 pages of it) and using the information therein to improve upon our own assessment criteria. This needs to be done for next week when I will be flying to the provinces of Limpopo, Mpumalanga, and Kwazulu-Natal over three days. I will be tasked with reviewing our current projects in each of these three provinces. I'm terribly excited to be able to visit our projects so far from Gauteng, and to be able to see what is happening on the ground.

Over lunch, I hopped in Richard's car and headed off towards the mall. I first found all of the highway off ramps in the vicinity and ensured that I could find my way to the office from all of them. At the mall, the power was unfortunatly still off and only the grocery store (Pick'n Pay) and Woolworths (an absolutely lovely department store) were open. I went to Pick and Pay and bought myself some airtime for my cell phone. I was keenly aware of being a foreigner when purchasing my airtime. The cell phone industry is so well developed in South Africa, and I felt absolutely daft trying to navigate the system. Apparently, at any checkout in any grocery store in South Africa, one can buy airtime. I plunked down my credit card, and off I went with a pin code to enter all R275 (two hundred and seventy five rand) worth of airtime onto my account. I felt rather accomplished once the money was on my phone!

Back at the office, I was pleasantly surprised to find the second tea of the day set out. Yes, at 9:30 and 3:30 tea is set out by the maids of NMCF. The hot water and tea bags (and instant coffee which is the norm here) were set out in the middle of my floor. It is DIVINE! It was just as nice as coming across a poster under some papers on my desk for www.childrensmovement.org.za. The poster had 'people of the world' drawn by children; there was a comical picture of an Eskimo standing next to an igloo that made me cry with laughter! I will have to take a picture of this Eskimo (yes, it says Eskimo, not Inuit) and post it for you.

Following my afternoon tea, the rest of the afternoon flew by and I was suddenly behind the wheel again. This time, I did not have Richard to guide me. I put on the radio and decided to make the best of it. In Midrand (which is nearing Pretoria) I decided that the one off ramp I had pondered taking some 20 minutes before, was the one that I actually needed to take. Back I went. Following along the N1 South toward Bloemfontein, I passed William Nicol Drive and wondered if there would be another exit that would take me to my destination. When I started to notice signs for Kimberly, I decided that another exit was not forthcoming and backtracked (yet again) to William Nicol. Once in Fourways, the difficulty was finding home. After a bit of stress and one more u-turn, I finally made it home. Knowing that Patty would be worried, I called her the second I walked in the door. Sure enough, she had the phone book open to NMCF and was kicking herself for not taking my cell phone number before I left for the day!!

Across the street I went. Patty poured me a glass of wine and we chatted as we waited for John, Jane and Richard to arrive.

Now that I'm back home at Richard's (I suppose I should start referring to this as my home), I can't help but wonder how I made it through the day. There was so much going on, so many things happening. The language was different (the Programs department speaks Sotho when talking amongst themselves). The city was far different from what it had been in 1997. Even the pop cans here are heavier than they are in Canada (something I noticed in '97, but had completely forgotten). The cans here feel half full when it is actually completely empty.

It was quite an amazing day, all said. Tshepo, who sits next to me, inspired me. Just hearing about her thoughts on NMCF gave me goosebumps and a will to push myself harder. It felt nice to know that I was sitting in a room full of people with whom I share fundamental beliefs in human rights and development.

Now, I'm completely exhausted. It feels like I have already put in a week's worth of work, and it's only Monday. It has only just begun.

Sunday, August 28, 2005

The Usual Suspects Cont'd or Send Reactine!

I forgot a few members of the family.

The fates apparently have a morbid sense of humour; while the Halfords no longer have dogs to harass me, there are cats. Multiple cats.

Gandolf is a grey cat that lives with Richard, Jane and myself. He tends to get himself locked in the garage. He also has a bad habit of leaving muddy paw prints all over my bathroom.

Phoebe is a black and orange cat that lives with John and Patty. She is Gandolf's sister. She tries to endear herself to me. Tries.

Salem is a black cat that lives with the neighbours. He is a brother to Gandolf and Phoebe. He enjoyed climbing through my bedroom window during the night and pouncing on me in my sleep until I closed my windows just enough to stop him from coming in. As a result, he now sits on the wall outside my window and watches me sleep.

*Achew*

The Usual Suspects

The Cast:

Richard Halford:
28; host-brother from 1997-98 Rotary exchange; graphic designer at Northpoint Architectural Firm

Jane Halford:
26; host-sister from 1997-98 Rotary exchange; copyrighter at Northpoint Architectural Firm

John Halford:
host-father from 1997-98 Rotary exchange; architect at Northpoint Architectural Firm

Patty Halford:
host-mother from 1997-98 Rotary exchange; substitute teacher; family chef extraordinaire

The Set:
I am living with Jane and Richard at Richard's house in Lone Hill. Their house is part of a complex of houses that is surrounded by a wall, with a gate. In the same complex John and Patty have a house. Jane and Rich and I take our meals at Patty's; she is a wonderful cook and it is lovely to know that food is one thing I don't have to worry about while I'm here. Since her substitute teaching is infrequent, she enjoys spending time cooking.

The Situation:
The car is coming. Richard has arranged for me to borrow a used car from a friend of his. I must pay the insurance on the car and all gas, and at the end of my stay, I will service the car to make sure it is in the same shape it was when I arrived. The car is currently being serviced and I will have it late this week or early next week. It is a rather old Mazda 323 that I'm so excited to have as my own. It is a darling car that I felt a bond with immediately. As a bonus, no one will want to highjack this automobile, so I feel quite safe puttering around Jo'burg in it!!

I begin working tomorrow morning. I will borrow Richard's car until my car is ready.

Saturday, August 27, 2005

The Springboks

Rugby was a stressful failure today. The South African side (the Springboks) were playing the New Zealand All Blacks in a rather important test (or so I was told, I have not seen a complete rugby came since I last left South Africa). With 5 minutes to go in the match, it seemed as if South Africa might possibly hold on for a victory. Alas, New Zealand found a hole in the SA defence and scored a try, claiming victory. The entire party seemed rather bummed at this point, and I was surprised that our breakfast managed to maintain a cheery atmosphere!!

Lynda, the wife of Grenville, a former-Rotarian from the Sandton club that hosted me on my exchange in 1997, put out a wonderful spread. Though Rich and I nipped out briefly to deal with the car, we were back in time for much food and even more wine. Candy, Brandon and Jordan, Lynda and Grenville's children, were all present. It was a relaxing afternoon spent sipping wine and chatting.

Friday, August 26, 2005

I Have Landed Safe...

... and relatively sound. News of my arrival to follow. In the mean time, I have posted a previous draft for your reading pleasure.

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

At the Airport

So long to everyone in T.O. I will see you all in >6 months!

To my South African friends, I will see you tomorrow. I can't wait!!

Monday, August 22, 2005

Internet Cafes and Coffee

I've moved from Krista's house into a hotel room. I know Kris would have welcomed my mom into her place along with me, but it just seemed easier for Mom and I to be downtown.

It has been nice, having someone around who I don't mind allowing to take charge. We've repacked my suitcases, and shopped for last minute neccessities (like a suit that fits). It's been a long day, but I think that short of putting the finishing touches on my suitcases, we're done.

So, this evening, I will have a nice (and hopefully relaxing) dinner with my mom and brother, and then come back to the hotel for my second swim of the day. [I'm looking forward to the oppor

Tomorrow is the big day. My father will likely fetch Mom and I in the early morning and whisk us off to breakfast somewhere near the airport.

I'm anxious to get the trip underway. Eager to begin moving again.

Friday, August 19, 2005

Four More Sleeps

I have always loved the moment when I step onto a plane at the beginning of one of my journeys. It is the break in time from the preparation stage to the action stage. It is a sigh of relief. It is an entire block of time in which I can be completely devoted to my own pleasure. I can read the books I want, eat the food that I want, allow my mind to wander to whatever thoughts I wish to ponder. Any last minute preparations that may have been causing me stress and pimples must simply be left at the door of the plane. And I can breath again.

I am looking forward to that moment.

Moving out of my apartment went off relatively smoothly. Jen helped me begin my packing, and Krista was there to help me finish. With my father and two brothers at hand, the entire contents of my apartment were donated to charity, moved to friends' houses and packed into the van to be stored at Mom and Dad's house, all in under 2 hours.

Not wanting to forgo my independence any sooner than necessary, I kept my mattress on the floor of my bedroom and spent another two nights in what was my home for the last 2 years.

This past week has been spent on Krista's couch. As comfortable as I am with Kris, I am anxious to move into my new digs with Richard. I am keen to unpack and know that I have a home for at least 6 months.

Today, I have been cleaning out my desk at NMCF (Canada). My month here has been busy. Among other activities, I have:

  • secured donations and golfers for the Golf Classic
  • learned our donor systems
  • prepared a donation proposal for Wild Rose in Alberta
  • provided administrative support
  • written a report on NMCF's role in CIDA's development agenda

( I have also kept the coffee warm, but we know this was as much to my benefit as to anyone else's).

Now I must wait. I must do laundry and try to arrange all of my necessary belongings into 2 suitcases. I have a night with the girls on Saturday and I will say my final goodbyes to the coffee crew on Sunday. My mother plans to be in Toronto on Monday. We will rent a hotel and be tourists in the city. All in all, I will have enough wonderful people to fill the awake time between my next four sleeps.

And then I will be off. In only four more sleeps.

I am in Fact Leaving for South Africa

My ticket is now booked. I will be departing from Pearson on 23 August 2005 at 2:27 pm. My flight arrives in Johannesburg at 5:05 pm on 24 August 2005.

Wednesday, August 17, 2005

NMCF (Canada) 2nd Annual Golf Classic

The bulk of this week has been spent preparing for and working at the NMCF (Canada) Golf Classic, held today at Angus Glen.

The day was a huge success, and a complete update will be up before this week is out.

Thursday, August 11, 2005

The Toronto Adventure

Before my South African Adventure can begin, the Toronto Adventure must end.

So it is that I am sitting next to a sea of boxes and a sparsely disheveled bookshelf. Today, Thursday, marks the first night in 4 that I have not wrapped a breakable, or packed a box full of a book and sweater mix. Tonight, I drank in a bit of Toronto.

Or shoved it in my mouth, rather.

Tonight was Gerard Street and an Indian buffet. It was delicious. I sat with friends from a prior summer job at TELUS Mobility, and rehashed old issues, and discussed new lives.

Before sundown, my days have been more energetic. I've been reading Canada's Foreign Policy Statement on Development, and enjoying every second of it. I have also been shown a glimpse of the workings of a fast-growing fundraising office, one that raises money for children in the name of Former South African President, Mr. Nelson Mandela.

It has been humbling. It has not been easy. But I have a very short time to find my footing before this opportunity is over, and I need to make sure that I make the most of this chance. It is surely a once in a lifetime opportunity.